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Tuesday, December 1, 2015
In-Home Tutors Help Students of All Ages
Teenagers can be reticent to ask for help, but no matter your age or the subject, Tutor Doctor’s one-on-one tutors can help. If you feel like you’re sinking and just can’t seem to catch up with the class, then the creative ministrations of our private tutors is just what the Doctor ordered!
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See Alysha Kartz’s story here:
Monday, October 12, 2015
Better Grades by Winter Recess: 4 Ways You Can Help
Personal Creations |
Is your child struggling? The longer they flounder, the
further behind they will get. When students are falling behind, every passing
week compounds their problems, erodes their confidence and makes success seem
like an impossible dream. Whether you want your child to catch up and keep up
or you want your child to get ahead of the class, there are ways you can help
improve grades right now.
Get in the Game
When parents are involved in their student’s lives, they are
able to better provide the support their children need. Start by talking with
your child’s teachers; get to know them and get their advice on how best to
help your child. They have insights that are essential to moving your child to
a successful future.
Take a Step Back
For many parents, bad grades have created emotional tension
between family members and when they try to encourage their children or help
with homework, it results in a fight. This is completely understandable as
parents want what is best for their children and emotions run high. If this is
the case, it may be time to step back and get an in-home tutor or family friend
to help with homework in a more constructive way.
Get Organized
Most students are smart but scattered; they have the
potential to succeed, but they forget homework and assignments, have trouble
initiating tasks and staying focused and don’t leave enough time for studying.
It can be very frustrating for parents until you realize that these skills
aren’t innate, they are learned.
Start implementing routines that show your child how to be
more organized. Set times for homework where they are free from distraction.
Limit screen and social time and help them to plan their days effectively.
Ensure that homework and assignments are done and packed the night before
rather than running around before school.
Tutor Doctor’s X-skills program
teaches these executive skills as part of their one-on-one tutoring program.
Every student gets an academic plan which helps them to set realistic goals and
create a roadmap to reach them. Tutors spend part of each session going over
the upcoming assignments and teaching students how to manage time and plan
ahead. Tutor Doctor tutors work with the curriculum and help your children to
do their homework so that this is not a daily struggle for you.
Find their Learning
Style
Each child is a unique learner who grasps information better
when it is presented in a learning style that suits them. Ask your in-home
tutor or teacher to help find your child’s learning style. You will see that
when you present information, ideas and concepts to them in their learning
style, they understand faster and retain information for longer. You can also
teach them to convert new information into their learning style so that it is
more accessible to them. For example; if a visual learner takes a paragraph of
facts from a history text book and creates a mind map, they will be more likely
to understand and retain that information.
Thursday, September 17, 2015
Tips to Getting your Kids to School on Time
Statefarm |
All parents struggle to get back into their morning routines
after the long summer holidays, but if every morning is a struggle for you, it
may be time to take action and beat that bell. Don’t’ have chaotic mornings
that see frenzied searches for missing items, nagging to get kids moving or
siblings fighting for bathroom time. Here are a few tips to keep your mornings
calm.
Learning Styles
Just as we need to change information to suit the child’s
learning style if we want them to absorb information in class, we also have to
adapt the way we communicate in the mornings. If your child is an auditory
learner, asking them to get up, telling them to brush their teeth and wash
their faces will be easy for them to comprehend.
Visual learners, however, may be left wondering what you
just said or daydreaming about their day. For these students, making charts
with all their morning tasks on it which they can tick off as they go through
them may be just the ticket.
Every child is different so try a few strategies like games,
rewards and incentives and songs to get them through their morning routines.
Find the formula that works for your family and stick to it until it becomes a
habit.
Planning is
Everything
School days always start the night before, especially for
students who have trouble getting ready. Decide on outfits and lay them out,
pack school bags and consult diaries to ensure that there are no forgotten
assignments or tests.
Review the day ahead and ensure that all books are packed.
What afterschool activities are happening? Do you need musical instruments,
sports uniforms and field trip permission slips?
R-E-S-P-E-C-T
The worst way to start your day is getting into a battle of
wills with your child. It takes up time, it stresses everyone out and it makes
for a really bad start to the day. While we are not always our best in the
mornings, we must try to be respectful of each other.
When parents treat children with respect and ask them to do
things nicely, it can diffuse some of the morning tension. If fighting is a big
part of every morning, either between you and your kids or between siblings,
it’s time to change the morning routine.
Start by asking them what they don’t like about mornings and
really listen to their answers. You may be surprised about what sets them off.
Knowing what makes them upset can help you to mitigate the irritation.
Talking about morning routines and ways to get
things to flow smoothly will help your family to work together to make waking
up and getting to school a happy
and healthy process.Thursday, September 10, 2015
What to Do When you Don’t Like your Child’s New Teacher
Filip Pticek |
Teachers are professionals who are often under-appreciated and
overworked and they should be respected at every turn. But, we are all human
and sooner or later you will meet a teacher that you can’t get along with.
Perhaps your differences are simple incompatibility or perhaps you disagree on
discipline or strategy; whatever your issue, be respectful and kind so your
child continues to benefit from their expertise.
The first step is to try to look at the situation calmly and
impartially. This may mean admitting that your little angel isn’t perfect, or
that you dealt poorly with a situation, but remember that it’s your child’s
academic future that you need to support, not your own interests.
Be respectful
Always be respectful when talking to teachers and about them.
Negative comments about teachers which your child overhears can cause them to
lose respect for that teacher. This will negatively affect their relationship
with their teacher whom they still have to see on a daily basis.
Be Professional
Keep the channels of communication open. Ensure that your
child’s teacher knows who you are and is able to reach you when they need to
discuss issues or concerns. Always keep a professional tone and avoid dealing
with issues when you are emotional or angry. Instead, wait until you can calmly
and rationally discuss problems. Always talk to the teacher first before
consulting a higher authority. Giving them the opportunity to resolve issues
themselves will prevent resentment.
Be a Good Listener
When students aren’t performing as well as they should, it’s
very easy for them to blame the teacher. If there has been an incident or your
child is not getting the grades you would like them to get, give the teacher an
opportunity to share their side of the story. They have insight to how your
child behaves in class that you don’t. Children often behave very differently
in a classroom situation when they are around their peers. Teachers have more
experience in dealing with behavioral and academic issues and they have some
valuable insights into your student’s behavior. Always endeavor to get the
teacher’s side of the story and treat them with the trust and respect they
deserve.
Dealing with Issues
Every parent wants their child to have the best possible
academic opportunity and if you have exhausted every other option, you may need
to move your child to another class. Dealing with difficulty is also a good
life lesson. When dealing with teachers and issues, be an excellent example for
your children and don’t be too quick to move them. Remember that they will have
to deal with people they don’t get along with in other situations; perhaps
there are bullies in their school or one day they will have a manager they
don’t like. Learning how to deal with conflict and with people they don’t get
along with is a great life lesson.
Thursday, August 20, 2015
5 Back to School Habits for a Happier Home
Department of Education |
It’s almost time to get back to the books so start a few new habits that will create a happier, healthier home for you and your children. Habits take only a couple of weeks and a little discipline to start, but they will ease the tension in your home, mean less nagging for you and better grades for your students.Mellow MorningsEver have to wake your kids thirteen times while searching for missing text books? Do you find them scrambling to do last minute homework first thing in the morning, conduct daily wardrobe wars or have arguments about what to make for breakfast? If your mornings are messy, there are things you can do to help ease the family into the day.Start by listening. Ask your kids what their five least favorite things are about mornings. You may be surprised! Perhaps they need more bathroom time, or they want to be woken up differently; whatever their issues, get them to write a list for you.When everyone has made their lists, call a family meeting and find ways to overcome the issues. If bathroom time is a problem, set limits, make a schedule or move hair and makeup to a different area to free up some bathroom time.Avoid the morning rush and wardrobe dilemmas by insisting that bags be packed the night before and outfits chosen for the next day.If your children have trouble getting up, institute earlier bedtimes, alarm clocks and other regimens that mean you don’t have to nag.Set Academic GoalsWork with your tutors, teachers and children to set reasonable goals for the coming academic year. When kids know where they are headed, they have more motivation and direction. You can augment motivation by offering rewards for when academic goals are achieved.Extra Mural ActivitiesEncourage after-school activities that help your child to stay healthy, active and creative. Sports and artistic pursuits help students to make friends, learn social skills and become more well-rounded individuals. Support and encourage their interests and hobbies which are sure to add to their lives.Family MealsMake a commitment to eating together at least twice a week. Family meals keep the family connected and foster good communication between family members. Studies show that families who enjoy regular meals together have better relationships.Family Play DatesStart an activity together that gets your family outside and involves being active. This may be as simple as taking a walk, biking or gardening together or a more adventurous family activity like kayaking, hiking or camping. Sharing time in nature and being active is a positive way for the whole family to enjoy each other’s company.
Starting new family traditions is a wonderful way to reconnect with each other and stay connected through the busy academic year.
Thursday, July 30, 2015
The Incredible Learning Power of Music
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A great way to improve learning at every
age is through the magic of music. You see, certain kinds of music can actually
stimulate your child’s higher cognitive functioning and help their development.
In a phenomenon known as the "Mozart
effect", listening to music creates a positive emotional response which,
in turn, improves cognitive functioning. Research tells us that listening to
certain classics, like Mozart, helps to improve spatial-temporal reasoning in
the short term. If Mozart isn’t your cup of tea, you have many other options to
choose from. Any kind of baroque music like Teleman or Vivaldi and ambient
music that has a tempo of 60 beats per second will help.
Later studies showed that any music with an
energetic beat or positive emotional qualities had the potential to stimulate
the spatial-temporal functioning.
This is the part of the brain that helps
you to understand complex concepts or solve difficult problems. For example, a
study by Rauscher, Shaw and Ky (1993) discovered that those subjects who
listened to Mozart prior to completing an IQ test scored higher than those who
did not listen to music.
Another study in rats found that pregnant
rats exposed to Mozart produced offspring that were better at maze learning.
While these changes are temporary, learning
music from an early age can have tangible, long-lasting improvements in brain
functioning: “It’s very clear from a number of experiments that if you do
musical training, you find changes in brain structures attributable to that
training. There are experiments that show that changes are greater if you begin
musical training by about the age of seven. They’re still there if you begin
later, but smaller in magnitude,” says neuropsychologist Robert Zatorre from
McGill University.
Neuroscientists from Boston Children’s
Hospital found a link between the introduction of musical instruments at an
early age and improved cognitive functioning. "Since executive functioning
is a strong predictor of academic achievement, even more than IQ, we think our
findings have strong educational implications.While many schools are cutting
music programs and spending more and more time on test preparation, our
findings suggest that musical training may actually help to set up children for
a better academic future,” said head researcher, Nadine Gaab.
The greatest impact of music on cognitive
functioning occurs when music is introduced before the child turns seven as it
creates more extensive connectivity between different parts of the brain and
also improves the ability to integrate sensory input.
If your child finds music distracting, try
ambient sounds such as whale songs, waterfalls, ocean waves and other natural
sounds. Eno's "Music for airports" is specifically designed to relax
and calm tired travellers in airports. Eno's background music heightens your
mood and occupies those parts of your brain that may cause distractions while
you are studying.
Friday, July 3, 2015
Best Tips for Choosing a Tutor
US Department of Education |
If your child is struggling a little to
keep up, or if you want to give them a boost to get to the head of the class,
summer tutoring will not only give them the help they need, it also prevents
the summer slide. During the summer, students can lose up to 30% of the math
and reading gains they made over the previous year. Just a couple of hours a
week can really make a difference, but how do you go about choosing a tutor
that will really make a difference.
Learning
Centers
There are many options to choose from, the
first being a learning center. Here your child will attend a session in a
classroom setting with other children. There are usually fewer children than in
a school class and these options can be much cheaper.
There are drawbacks though as you have to
drive your children there and then pick them up again. More importantly, a
classroom setting is obviously not ideal for them, especially if they are
struggling at school. They don’t get as much attention as they need and they
may not be asking questions or speaking up when they don’t understand something
for fear of being embarrassed.
Private
Tutors
This is a good option if you want the tutor
to come to your home or if you are looking for someone who lives in your area.
They are usually cheaper than tutors from tutoring companies and are more
flexible than learning centers.
Private tutors aren’t vetted so you don’t
know if they are qualified or safe to have around your family. They may not be
available when you need them and they can be unreliable too.
Tutor
Doctor Tutors
We come to you home, at a time that is
convenient for you, and teach your children in the comfort of your home. Our
one-on-one tutors are vetted and have the experience they need to help your
child.
The process starts with a free education
consultation which will assess the needs and abilities of your child. We then
search for the perfect tutor to suit your child’s needs and personality in a
process we call the ‘magic match’.
Once your tutor has been found, they work
with your child’s teacher to establish where they require assistance and how
best to help. They don’t pile on more work, but work with your child’s
curriculum and homework to find the missing building blocks and fill them in.
For most students, it’s their learning
skills that need honing. That means that they need to work on their executive
skills like organization, task initiation, concentration and memory, task
prioritization etc. so that they can become accomplished independent learners.
Under our Academic Game Plan, we teach your
child the executive skills they need to succeed in learning and in life. We
help your child to set goals and then give them the individual attention they
need to reach them.
Our caring tutors are there when your child
needs them most and we even have a TD 24x7 online curriculum tool to help your
child when they are studying for tests and exams.
After every session, your tutor will give
you feedback on your child’s progress so you are always in the loop. Simply
put; the Tutor Doctor difference is that we really care and are invested in
seeing your children succeed.
Thursday, June 25, 2015
Do Our Children Get Too Much Homework?
Any parent who has watched their child stay
up way past their bedtime toiling over their books or wasting a weekend working
on projects and assignments knows how tough it can be. Teenagers are especially
burdened with work that leaves them tired, stressed and with no time for social
engagements, sport or family events.
Overloaded children suffer from anxiety and
fatigue that many think is counterproductive and bad for their health and
well being. Unfortunately, an increasingly competitive academic culture and jobs
market mean children have to push themselves further to succeed.
Guidelines
for Homework
The National PTA and the National Education
Association have set guidelines for homework which should increase by 10
minutes for each grade. That means that in the first grade your child will be
doing 10 minutes of homework a day, 20 minutes in the second grade and so on.
What this means is that by the 12th grade, they will be doing two
hours of homework a day. Some experts say two hours a day is way too much and
doesn’t leave enough time for the sleep, rest, social time and the exercise
healthy teens need.
More
Homework doesn’t Mean Brighter Stars
Studies
show that students who did more than two hours of homework did not fare any
better than those who did two or less. While this is counter-intuitive, it
seems like assigning less homework that is focused on areas the student needs
to improve on is far more effective. Unfortunately, most teachers have no time
to give students individual homework that help them work through the issues
they have.
Here
one-on-one tutors provide the most effective solution as tutors are able to
help students to get through their homework and cover areas that they are
having problems with.
While studies show that a reasonable amount
of homework did improve test scores for students in high school, it seemed to
make little difference to those in elementary school.
Better
Learning, Better Life
The trick seems to be a finding a balance.
Parents often don’t complain to teachers when their children have too much
homework but if you see a negative impact on the performance or happiness of
your child or if your child is experiencing anxiety, you need to work with
teachers to find an amicable solution.
If homework is a daily struggle, speak with
teachers and tutors on how you can motivate your child. Some children have real
issues with executive skills like task initiation, time management,
organization or staying focused. This can mean that your child actually has a
reasonable amount of homework, but they take forever to do it.
If this is the case, find an in-home tutor
who teaches executive skills so that your child learns to organize their time,
prioritize tasks and stay organized. Being able to focus for long periods of
time to finish tasks is a great life skill to learn, so persevere and you will
soon have an independent learner and no homework hassles!
Tuesday, June 16, 2015
Best Apps for Game-based Learning
Lucélia Ribeiro |
What’s the best way to get your kids
excited about learning? Turn it into a game. With more and more technology
available, you can download apps that will have your kids learning without even
realizing it. Over the summer holidays, kids can lose up to 30% of the academic
gains they made in the previous year. Put an end to the summer slide by
encouraging learning through play with these incredible apps.
Gen i Revolution: Teach
personal finance to middle and high school students with this fun app. The
players will be faced with sixteen missions to help people in financial
trouble. With Gen i Revolution, earning is learning as they select their
operatives, earn points as they gather information and complete tasks which teach
them about general finance, financial concepts and terminology.
SpellingCity.com:
We all know just how difficult spelling can be, but a spelling mistake on a CV
or job application letter or on a college entrance exam could mean a missed
opportunity for your child. Not only will this be a great life skill to learn,
but being able to effectively communicate ideas and concepts with a healthy
vocabulary will help your child to excel on exams and tests. With over 50,000
words and 60,000 sentences, SpellCity.com offers K-12 students a fun way to
learn to spell while improving their vocabulary.
Duolingo:
Learning a foreign language? Duolingo was voted best Apple app in 2013 and will
help your child to memorize words in a foreign language. You can also lean on
other language apps to help your child master a second language. Some of the
better ones include MindSnacks, Babbel and Cat Academy for all those LOL cat fans
out there.
Galxyz:
This great app helps kids to master basic scientific concepts and scientific
reasoning. This app follows school curriculums to augment what students learn
in class in a fun and engaging way. On a quest to save the natural curiosity of
children from the evil King Dullard, students are taken through the Next
Generation Scientific Standard in the proper sequence as outlined by the US
government.
Cosmic
Reactor Arithmetic: A fun game for both parents and kids who want to hone
their math skills. With seven different games and variable difficulty, you can
set the parameters to fit your child’s abilities and grade. Best for students
aged 5-12. You can also turn to Math
Ninja or Mathemagics
to practice your math skills while learning basic principles.
Tutor Doctor also works to prevent the
summer slide and keep young minds active over the summer with the Academic Game Plan.
Here students can take just a couple of hours a week to catch up and forge
ahead while having fun. Contact your local tutor Doctor office for a free
consultation.
This summer, you can use screen time
constructively to keep your kids learning and growing while they are having
fun. Remember to limit screen time and set a timer with a shut-off so you don’t
always have to be the bad guy.
Friday, June 12, 2015
Are Private Schools Better than Public Schools?
The pervasive
consensus is that a private school education is better for our children than
one provided by a public school. But is this really true? Private school do a
much better job of marketing themselves because their success relies on them
filling their classrooms.
Better Academic Outcomes
Private schools do
tend to produce higher scoring students. For example, in Canada, about a third
of the top ranking schools are private. The rankings are based on the student’s
performance on standardized tests.
One important
consideration is that private school children tend to come from families that
occupy a higher socio-economic bracket. This means that they are more likely to
have parents who are at home and are more likely to be university-educated,
they have access to better materials and resources and they have access to
better food and medical care.
In 2014, a study by
two researchers from the University of Illinois found that, when you control
for these socio-economic advantages, private school education performs on par
or worse than public schools. There was little evidence to support the notion
that these private school with better resources and better teachers, had a
positive influence on the academic standards of the students.
A recent study
followed 7,142 Grade 10 students from both public and private schools. While
they found that the private school students excelled at academics (about 9%
better than their public school counterparts) and went on to enjoy more success
after graduation, they could not attribute this success to the school itself.
From the report: "Two factors consistently account for these differences;
students who attended private high schools were more likely to have
socio-economic characteristics positively associated with academic success and
to have school peers with university-educated parents."
Another study by the
Center on Education Policy challenges traditional perceptions about private
schools. President of the Center Jack Jennings sums it up: "Contrary to
popular belief, we can find no evidence that private schools actually increase
student performance, instead, it appears that private schools simply have
higher percentages of students who would perform well in any environment based
on their previous performance and background."
Some advantages
The study found that
private school students were positively influenced by the academic caliber of
their classmates. Private schools often have stringent entry requirements and
being surrounded by successful academics is certainly a positive influence on
students.
The study also showed
that the students went on to enjoy greater success in the labor market in part
because of the associations and connections that they had established with
other families who were well situated on the social-economic level.
Level Playing Field
Contrary to popular
belief, the study found that private schools in general didn’t differ that much
in terms of the resources and quality of teachers and were only slightly better
than private schools. As funding for schools gets cut (especially in the US)
this gap may grow.
So if a private school
is only slightly better than a public school at educating your child, where
would you get the most for your educational buck? “I would get a private
tutor,” says Jon-Anthony Lui from Tutor
Doctor. “With a
one-on-one tutor, your child gets the individual attention they need and the
tutor can not only find the missing building blocks in their knowledge, they
can also teach them the executive skills they need to be successful in
academics and in life. You’ll spend less on a tutor and you’ll see the results
instantly.”
Friday, May 15, 2015
Myopia: What Parents Should Know
Bryan |
Too much screen time and studying have an
adverse effect on our eyesight and may result in myopia (short-sightedness)
over time. In Asia, myopia has become somewhat of an epidemic and 80 to 90% of
students are afflicted with short-sightedness by the time they leave school.
While we get our children to eat healthy
foods, exercise and brush their teeth, we don’t always know how to help them
take care of their eyes. A healthy lifestyle, regulated screen time and regular
checkups with the optometrist can catch problems early on so you can take steps
to mitigate damage.There are several symptoms to watch for
which can tell you that your child may need glasses.
Signs
that your Child needs Glasses
While most children become accustomed to
eyestrain and may not notice blurriness, they do experience physical symptoms
which can help to highlight problems. When eyes are strained, it can cause
headaches, tearing, red eyes and excessive eye rubbing.
If you notice your child squinting, closing
one eye or moving objects closer to them or further away, it may be time for a
trip to the optometrist. Wanting to sit really close to the television or
computer screen and sensitivity to light are also important indicators that your
child may have a visual impairment.
Struggling with hand-eye coordination and
losing interest in books or other work that requires good eyesight may be
important signs that they need glasses.
If you want to test your child’s eyesight
at home, use the University of Buffalo’s IVAC tool
which allows you to use the computer to measure eyesight. Of course this isn’t
a definitive test and you should still see a professional, but it may be a good
way to check progress between visits to the optometrist.
How
Often Should My Kids Go to the Optometrist?
Babies get their eyesight tested when they
are born and should have another test at around 6 months. After that, routine
tests every two years with a registered optometrist should ensure that any
issues are caught in time. If you child already has glasses, annual check-ups
are required.
Myopia results from too much screen time
and not enough vitamin D so institute limitations on how many hours your
children spend in front of a screen and try to get them outside for at least
two hours a day.
When children are studying or working on
the computer, encourage regular breaks and looking out of the window; adjusting
to distance will help keep eyes in shape.
Limiting screen time, getting sunshine and
a healthy diet with all the vitamins and minerals are great ways to maintain
healthy eyesight for your children.
Friday, May 8, 2015
8 Ways to Teach Your Child Compassion
Studies show that while some children have an innate sense
of compassion, it is a valuable character trait that we can teach and develop
for all children. Being compassionate makes you a more considerate and caring
individual and this will help your children to feel part of their communities
and contribute positively. There are simple ways you can help your children to
develop a sense of compassion and caring for themselves and for others.
Manners Matter
Teaching manners is really teaching your child to treat
others with respect. Saying ‘please’ and ‘thank you’, giving up their chair on
the bus and sending ‘thank you’ notes for gifts are great ways to show respect
and help children to start to think of others.
Volunteer
Spending a couple of hours a month at a homeless shelter, an
animal shelter or a community garden will help your children to experience the
joy of giving, and get a sense of the needs of others and all they have to be
grateful for.
Environmental Awareness
Recycling, picking up litter, taking your own cup to the
coffee shop, donating old clothes to charity or upcycling your used items helps
children to think about the way they affect nature and how they can live a more
environmentally-friendly life.
Random Acts of
Kindness
Buy a coffee for a friend, give a homeless person a meal,
share your vegetables and fruit with neighbors or help a friend move. These are
ways in which you can show your child how random acts of kindness every day can
positively affect the world around you.
Get a Pet
Learning to care for another living thing and spending time
with them helps children to develop a sense of compassion and caring. This
should be a positive experience, so don’t get pets that they won’t be able to
handle or if their schedules are too busy.
Talk about Bullying
Explain that name calling or physical intimidation isn’t
funny and get them to think about how they would feel if it was happening to
them. Discuss ways to handle bullies and what to do if they are bullied or if
they see someone else getting bullied.
Donate to Charities
Every little bit helps so get them to collect their spare
change for a charity of their choice. They can also participate in fundraisers
for various charities.
Be a good Example
At the end of the day, the best way to teach compassion is
to embody it. So resist the urge to complain, judge and be critical of others.
When we do this, our children emulate our behavior. So practice compassion
yourself, and point out wonderful stories where others have been good examples
of compassionate humans.
Be compassionate to your child so that they know
what it’s like to be on the receiving end. Talk to them about how it makes them
feel so that they are awar
Friday, May 1, 2015
Wonderful Ways to Spend Mother's Day
It’s time to start planning a special day for your mother to
show her just how much you appreciate all that she does for you. While you can
buy gifts (or make your own), it’s the personal touches that let her know just
how much you love her. Here are some great ideas for making Mother’s Day
special.
Staycation
Give mom a home holiday this Mother’s Day weekend and make
sure she doesn’t have to do a thing. Take care of all her chores, cook the
meals and do any shopping that needs to be done. Make sure the house is clean,
the laundry is done and the yard has had a spring clean.
Make her staycation extra special with sleep-ins, hot baths,
a good book and some fun family activities that you know she will enjoy. Give
your mom a Mother’s Day ‘staycation’ that’s not only a well-deserved break, but
also helps you to realize just how much she does for you.
Movie Night
Mom gets to pick the flick this time and you can augment the
experience by building a pillow fort, making popcorn or taking your movie
experience outside if you have a projector. You can also organize a family
outing to the cinema and a picnic to round out the evening.
Acting Out
Does your mum like music or the theater? Gather your friends
and family members and put on a show for your mom. Write a song, do a play,
perform magic tricks or do a standup comedy act that will be fun for the whole
family.
And the Oscar goes
to…
Create a tribute video where friends and family members all
say what they love best about your mom. You can ask distant friends and relatives
to do a video phone-in or send videos they make on their smart phones. Compile
the clips into a mom love-fest that will make her day.
Gardening
Does your mom love her garden? Plant a new flower bed or get
some really colorful spring flowers that you can plant for a splash of color.
You can also plant her a new vegetable garden or create a raised garden bed
that will make it easier for her to enjoy her favorite hobby.
Class Act
Enroll yourself and your mom in a class you know she will
love. Whether it’s painting, flamenco dancing, pottery or skydiving, do
something together that you know she will love.
Recipe Rewards
Does your mom love cooking? Make her a personalized cook
book that has her favorite recipes from all of her friends and family members.
Get each person to write out their recipe and a little note to her and compile
them into a book. You can scrapbook these recipes or go online to find a
printer that makes recipe books to order. Include photos of friends and family
eating some of your favorite holiday meals.
Your mom works so hard all year round, so be
sure to show your appreciation on Mother’s Day and make a fun, relaxing day that she is sure to
Friday, April 3, 2015
Promote Understanding for Autism Awareness Month in April
This April, help to spread awareness, understanding and respect for
those who suffer from autism and Asperger’s syndromes. Autism is an
increasingly prevalent part of our society and promoting understanding will
help people on the spectrum to feel accepted and supported.
What is the Autism
Spectrum?
Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) is a range of complex
behaviors that may leave those afflicted with an inability to fit in socially.
They may also experience trouble communicating effectively and display
repetitive patterns of behavior. The autism spectrum is very wide and people
may experience symptoms which range from mild to severe in nature.
ASD occurs in all ethnic groups, age groups and socioeconomic
groups and experts estimate that 1 in every 88 children ages 8 and under have
ASD. Studies show that boys are 4 times more likely to have ASD than girls.
Because children with ASD sometimes have trouble fitting in,
they may find it difficult to thrive in a traditional school environment and
are often the victims of bullying and negativity from children and adults.
Spreading awareness will help to alleviate some of the difficulties that ASD
children and their families have to deal with. Promoting understanding will
create communities where children with ASD are supported and given the best
chance to develop and fulfill their incredible potential.
Why should I Support
Autism Awareness Month?
Many children with ASD need special support for learning and
growing and their families need counseling and assistance. Special needs tutoring and education can
often come at a high price, but it’s crucial to allow children with ASD to
excel and grow to their full potential.
Children with ASD may also need medication or other
therapies that families struggle to afford. Support one of the many Autism
Awareness activities in your area that will raise funds for children and their
families in April.
If you are not able to participate in these activities, you
can do your bit for Autism Awareness month by educating yourself and your
family about ASD and how to best help those who have it. You and your family
can also volunteer at one of the many organizations that support families and
children with ASD.
Take the Twizzler
Challenge
You did the ice bucket challenge, now try the Twizzler
challenge to support Autism Awareness Month. Post a video of you and someone
else eating licorice Lady-and-the-Tramp style. Then, nominate someone else to
do the same!
Post to social media using the hastag's #TwizzlerChallenge
#AutismCanada.
Resources for
families
Want to know more about ASD and help to educate your kids?
Here are some resources to help you.
Contact the Autism Society in Canada here.
Find additional Canadian Resources here:
Contact the Autism Society in the US here.
Find additional resources here:
Contact the Autism Society in the UK here.
Find additional resources here:
Tuesday, March 3, 2015
How to Beat Exam Stress
Exam stress; everyone feels anxious and nervous in the days leading up to exams – we’ve all been there. Trouble is that exam anxiety can have disastrous side effects like lack of sleep, headaches, stomach aches, and an inability to concentrate. This means that you aren’t resting or eating properly and that means you aren’t performing at your peak. Exam anxiety may lead you to fulfill your worst case scenarios.
Just like a professional athlete trains, eats well and gets plenty of rest before a big game, doing well in school is like training for your brain. That means you need to put in the practice leading up to the exams—leaving things to the last minute will only contribute to your exam stress.
Just like a professional athlete trains, eats well and gets plenty of rest before a big game, doing well in school is like training for your brain. That means you need to put in the practice leading up to the exams—leaving things to the last minute will only contribute to your exam stress.
Next you need to feed your brain. Your brain needs whole grains, protein, fruits and veggies so follow a healthy diet and get tons of exercise; living off gummy bears and energy drinks will mean your blood sugar levels crash right in the middle of the exam. When this happens, your ability to focus and concentrate is impaired as are your higher cognitive functions. Fuel your brain to perform at your peak.
Here are some of the best exam stress busters:
Study! I know this is obvious, but being prepared and not leaving everything to the last minute will mean that you feel more confident and will keep those exam blues at bay.
Be positive: Don’t listen to any of those little voices in your head whispering; “you can’t do it”. If you think that it’s too hard, then it will be. Keep telling yourself you can do it and encourage yourself to try. Congratulate yourself on those things you do well and be your own inner cheerleader.
Move it! Exercise is one of the best stress relievers and the perfect antidote to all that desk time. Go for a walk, a swim or a run or just have a ten minute dance party to get the juices flowing.
On exam day:
Get plenty of sleep the night before. It may seem like a good idea to stay up and study, but the law of diminishing returns means that not getting enough sleep seriously reduces your ability to retain information and deal with stress. You will retain more and perform better if you are well rested.
Ok, so you already know that you need to start the day with a really great breakfast. A well-balanced healthy meal will help you to focus and do your best.
Stay hydrated; drink lots of water and go easy on the soda and coffee.
Leave plenty of time to get to the exam so you aren’t rushing. If your friends are stressing out before the exam, then keep to yourself and listen to that positive inner voice.
Start with the easy questions first. That will give you the confidence you need to tackle the more challenging ones.
When the exam is over, have a rest and then go and do something fun; nothing relieves anxiety like a good laugh.
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